Written by Susan Miller*

Executive English for Private Equity: Mastering Ask vs Inform in Board Updates

Ever had a board note stall because directors couldn’t tell if you needed a decision or were simply reporting status? In this lesson, you’ll master the Ask vs Inform split for PE-grade updates—so you can accelerate approvals, protect governance, and project executive presence. You’ll get surgical decision logic, precise templates and language markers, real-world KPI scenarios (including negative variance), and drills with corrections to test your judgment—all built for mobile-first, confidential workflows.

Executive English for Private Equity: Mastering Ask vs Inform in Board Updates

1) Decision Logic: When your board update should be an Ask vs an Inform

In private equity contexts, the distinction between an Ask and an Inform is not stylistic—it is operational. It determines how the board allocates attention, which risks are surfaced for decision, and how quickly the company can move. Conflating the two erodes trust because directors cannot tell whether a message requires action or simply merits awareness. Over time, this ambiguity slows decision-making velocity, generates follow-up emails and meetings, and creates audit gaps when investors and LPs later look for a record of why a direction was chosen.

An update should be an Ask when a decision, approval, or explicit endorsement is necessary to proceed, or when management needs formal alignment that will be auditable later. Asks are about unlocking a path: authorizing spending above thresholds, approving a change in strategy, selecting among defined options, accepting a trade-off, or acknowledging risk to the investment thesis that requires board-level input. If the business cannot—or should not—move forward without the board’s choice, you must frame the update as an Ask.

An update should be an Inform when your goal is to provide traceable visibility without seeking action. Informs are about maintaining shared situational awareness and protecting the board from surprises. They cover progress against plan, KPI movements that fall within delegated authority to manage, variance explanations that do not require escalation, and risk updates where mitigation is already in motion within approved parameters. Informing preserves cognitive bandwidth: the board understands reality and trajectory but does not need to debate a decision.

To decide quickly between Ask and Inform, apply this logic:

  • Does the item exceed delegation of authority, policy, or budget limits? If yes, it’s an Ask.
  • Are there mutually exclusive strategic options where the board’s risk appetite is relevant? If yes, it’s an Ask.
  • Would proceeding without board awareness create governance risk or surprise? If yes, likely an Ask.
  • Are we merely updating on performance within expected variance ranges and executing pre-agreed plans? If yes, it’s an Inform.
  • Is the aim to record a change and its impact for auditability without changing course? If yes, it’s an Inform.

A final decision test: Ask converts into a binary or chosen outcome; Inform converts into understanding. If your intended outcome is “Board approves X by Y date,” it’s an Ask. If your intended outcome is “Board is aware of X and can trace rationale later,” it’s an Inform. Keeping this distinction explicit accelerates the board’s ability to scan, prioritize, and act.

2) Precise language patterns and format templates for each

In high-stakes communications, you should design your language so that even a rapid skim reveals intent. Directors often read on mobile, under time pressure, and within packed agendas. Therefore, your language must include unambiguous markers of Ask vs Inform, specific tones, and a structure that eliminates inference.

For an Ask, use decisive, forward-leaning verbs, a clear decision statement, and a bounded choice set. Your tone is formal, concise, and time-bound. Include the decision context, the options considered, the recommendation, and the explicit decision request. Linguistic markers that reliably signal an Ask include:

  • “Decision requested:” or “Approval requested:” as literal labels
  • “Authorize,” “Approve,” “Select,” “Confirm,” “Endorse,” “Accept,” “Proceed with”
  • “By [date/time], choose [Option A/B],” “Approve budget increase of [amount],” “Confirm risk posture for [scenario]”
  • “Recommendation:” followed by one sentence

A robust Ask format template should include:

  • Header: “Ask — [Topic] — Decision by [Deadline]”
  • Decision request: one sentence stating the exact decision/approval needed
  • Rationale: concise link to strategy, KPIs, risk/return, and alternatives evaluated
  • Options: clear, mutually exclusive choices with implications summarized in one line each
  • Recommendation: one sentence, firmly stated
  • Requirements and timing: what is needed to execute after approval and by when
  • Attachments/reference: where to find deeper analysis

For an Inform, use neutral, factual phrasing that emphasizes awareness and traceability. Your tone is confident but non-urgent. You state the change or status, quantify impact, and reference pre-agreed thresholds. Linguistic markers that reliably signal an Inform include:

  • “For awareness,” “Status update,” “No decision required”
  • “Within/Outside tolerance,” “On track/At risk,” “Variance explained by”
  • “Mitigation underway,” “No action sought,” “Record for audit and continuity”

A robust Inform format template should include:

  • Header: “Inform — [Topic] — No Action Required”
  • Status statement: the core fact in one sentence
  • Impact and variance: quantified shift versus plan or prior period
  • Cause and mitigation: root cause in one or two lines, mitigation within delegated authority
  • Forward view: what to expect next reporting cycle; whether risk rating changes
  • References: link to dashboards or memos for details

Consistency matters. When boards see these patterns repeatedly, they trust that “Ask” always means a decision is needed and “Inform” always means awareness only. This reduces clarification emails and unnecessary debates.

3) Apply to KPI-driven scenarios, including framing negative variance

Board communication in private equity is KPI-centric. Numbers are not the entire story, but they anchor credibility. Your role is to translate KPI movements into either a decision request or an awareness update, making sure the implications to the investment thesis and exit plan are clear.

When KPIs move positively within expected ranges, you typically Inform. You acknowledge performance, relate it to plan, and note any enablement decisions taken within your authority. The focus is on maintaining a clean record of execution and preserving attention for higher-order choices. Even for positive surprises, ask yourself whether the upside creates a resource allocation question that warrants an Ask; if not, Inform is sufficient.

When KPIs deviate negatively, your first question is not “How do I explain it?” but “Does this deviation require a decision?” If the variance breaches pre-agreed thresholds, compromises covenants, or triggers a material shift in risk/return trade-offs, escalate to an Ask. If the variance is material but already covered by a contingency within delegated authority, Inform with clear mitigation and a trigger point at which you would escalate to an Ask.

Framing negative variance requires precise language that separates fact, cause, and action. Directors need to see that management identifies the driver, quantifies the impact, and is either: a) executing a pre-authorized plan, or b) seeking new authorization. Avoid emotional qualifiers (“disappointing,” “unfortunate”) and vague causality (“market conditions”) without specifics. Instead, focus on measurable drivers, leading indicators, and the minimum viable decision. Keep the connection to the investment thesis visible: revenue mix, gross margin, sales efficiency, cash runway, and any EBITDA impact.

Translate KPI movement into Ask or Inform by following this chain:

  • Observation: specify the KPI, the magnitude of change, and the timeframe
  • Interpretation: connect the movement to drivers (demand, pricing, conversion, churn, cost inflation)
  • Implication: describe impact on cash, covenant headroom, runway, valuation drivers, or strategic milestones
  • Required response: either state the decision you need (Ask) or the mitigation underway (Inform)
  • Timing: say when the impact becomes critical and when you will update next

Negative variance language discipline is especially important. If you need a decision, make the Ask explicit early; do not bury the decision after a long narrative. If you do not need a decision, say so in the header and focus on transparency and corrective action within existing guardrails. This not only preserves trust but also demonstrates operational control.

4) Practice converting ambiguous mixed updates into crisp outputs, with a self-review checklist

Many real-world updates drift into a “mixed message” zone: they include both facts and implied requests without naming them. This ambiguity forces directors to infer intent, leading to email chains and delayed choices. Your goal is to eliminate this pattern with a micro-structure that prevents ambiguity and a disciplined self-review.

Use a reusable micro-structure:

  • Intent label: begin with “Ask” or “Inform” as a header
  • Outcome statement: one sentence that states the decision sought or the awareness purpose
  • Evidence capsule: 2–4 lines that summarize the essential metrics and drivers
  • Implications: one or two lines that tie metrics to the thesis or risk profile
  • Next step: for Ask, the decision and deadline; for Inform, the monitoring plan and next update
  • References: where to find extended analysis

This micro-structure keeps the first screen on a phone sufficient for intent and next steps. It also forces you to decide what you are asking for before you write the narrative. If you find yourself adding hedging phrases (“we may need,” “we might consider”), you are sliding into ambiguity. Replace hedges with either a clear decision request or a clear awareness statement.

Adopt a self-review checklist to maintain quality under time pressure:

  • Intent clarity: Is “Ask” or “Inform” literally stated in the header?
  • Outcome specificity: For Ask, is the decision framed as a binary or bounded choice with a deadline? For Inform, is “No action required” explicitly stated?
  • KPI alignment: Are the relevant metrics quantified, time-bound, and benchmarked against plan or prior period?
  • Causality: Have you articulated the primary drivers of change without vague generalities?
  • Implications: Have you connected performance to investment thesis elements (margin, cash, growth efficiency, covenants)?
  • Governance: For Ask, does the request exceed delegated authority or require board risk appetite? For Inform, is the update within approved guardrails and recorded for audit?
  • Brevity and scannability: Can a director extract intent and action within 30 seconds on a mobile device?
  • Attachments: Are deeper materials referenced but not embedded in the core message?
  • Timing: Have you stated when a decision is needed or when the next update will be provided?
  • Consistency: Does the tone match the category (decisive for Ask; neutral and factual for Inform)?

By applying this checklist, you train a consistent mental model: either you are moving the board to decide, or you are keeping the board informed with a clean, auditable record. Over time, this discipline creates measurable benefits: faster decisions on real choices, fewer clarifying questions, and a stable archive that supports LP reporting and exit diligence.

Finally, remember why this distinction matters to private equity stakeholders. Boards and LPs operate under time constraints and fiduciary duties. They need to allocate attention where it changes outcomes. Every message that masquerades as an Inform but hides an Ask forces directors to guess and introduces governance risk. Every Ask that is padded with unnecessary narrative dilutes urgency and creates friction. Your craft, as an executive communicator, is to make intent unmistakable, quantify the stakes, and guide the board’s scarce attention to the right actions at the right time. When you do, trust rises, velocity increases, and your updates become strategic instruments rather than administrative chores.

  • Use Ask when a board decision, approval, or explicit endorsement is needed; Inform when providing awareness only with no action required.
  • Signal intent clearly in the header and language: Ask uses decisive verbs and a bounded choice set with a deadline; Inform uses neutral status phrasing and states “No action required.”
  • Translate KPI movements into Ask or Inform by quantifying observation, cause, implication, and the required response; escalate to Ask if thresholds, covenants, or authority limits are breached.
  • Apply consistent templates and a self-review checklist to ensure brevity, auditability, and governance clarity, avoiding mixed messages or hedging language.

Example Sentences

  • Ask — Approve Q4 headcount freeze exception — Decision by Oct 25: authorize two enterprise AEs to protect pipeline conversion.
  • Inform — Gross margin Q3 — No action required: margin at 58.2%, within ±1% tolerance; variance driven by mix shift to services.
  • Decision requested: Select Option A (renew vendor at 6% uplift) or Option B (migrate in-house in 90 days); recommendation: Option A to avoid SLA risk during peak season.
  • For awareness: churn ticked up to 4.1% vs. 3.5% plan; mitigation underway via targeted save offers within pre-approved discount bands.
  • Approval requested: increase capex by $1.2M to accelerate automation; post-approval, go-live in 12 weeks, payback in 14 months.

Example Dialogue

Alex: I’m drafting the board note. Our CAC rose 12% but stays within the ±15% band. That should be an Inform.

Ben: Agreed—label it “Inform — Marketing efficiency — No action required,” and show the variance and mitigation.

Alex: Separate note: we need to pick between delaying the EU launch or approving an extra $800k to hit the holiday window.

Ben: That’s an Ask. Frame it with “Decision requested,” outline Options A/B, and state the recommendation and deadline.

Alex: Got it—Ask drives a binary choice; Inform records status without action.

Ben: Exactly. Keep them on one screen so directors can decide or move on fast.

Exercises

Multiple Choice

1. Which update should be framed as an Ask in a private equity board pack?

  • Marketing CAC up 7% but within the ±15% tolerance, mitigation underway.
  • Select between renewing Vendor X at 5% uplift or migrating in-house in 60 days to reduce SLA risk.
  • Q3 gross margin at 58.4%, within ±1% band; mix shift to services.
  • Monthly KPI dashboard link for awareness; no action required.
Show Answer & Explanation

Correct Answer: Select between renewing Vendor X at 5% uplift or migrating in-house in 60 days to reduce SLA risk.

Explanation: An Ask is required when a decision among options is needed or when action exceeds delegated authority. Choosing between mutually exclusive options is an Ask; the others are Inform items within guardrails.

2. You’re reporting churn rose to 4.3% vs. 3.6% plan. Mitigation is within pre-approved discount bands; no thresholds breached. How do you label the note?

  • Ask — Churn — Decision by Friday
  • Inform — Churn — No action required
  • Ask — Approve additional $1M retention budget
  • Inform — Churn — Decision required later
Show Answer & Explanation

Correct Answer: Inform — Churn — No action required

Explanation: If the variance is material but handled within delegated authority and no decision is needed, it’s an Inform. Explicitly state “No action required” to preserve clarity and auditability.

Fill in the Blanks

___ — Q4 pipeline risk — Decision by Nov 3: Select Option A (delay EU launch) or Option B (approve +$900k to hit holiday window); recommendation: Option B to protect revenue targets.

Show Answer & Explanation

Correct Answer: Ask

Explanation: Label as “Ask” when a binary decision with budget implications is required; the structure includes a deadline, options, and a recommendation.

___ — Marketing efficiency — No action required: CAC up 12% vs. plan but within ±15% tolerance; variance driven by channel mix; mitigation underway within approved guardrails.

Show Answer & Explanation

Correct Answer: Inform

Explanation: Use “Inform” when providing status within thresholds and no board decision is needed; explicitly state “No action required.”

Error Correction

Incorrect: Inform — Capex request — Approve $1.2M automation spend to reduce COGS by 4%.

Show Correction & Explanation

Correct Sentence: Ask — Capex increase — Decision by Oct 28: Approve $1.2M to accelerate automation; payback 14 months; post-approval go-live in 12 weeks.

Explanation: A request for approval is an Ask, not an Inform. The corrected version uses the Ask template: intent label, decision deadline, amount, and execution timing.

Incorrect: Ask — Q3 MRR status — No decision required; variance explained by delayed invoices.

Show Correction & Explanation

Correct Sentence: Inform — Q3 MRR status — No action required: variance explained by delayed invoices within tolerance; mitigation underway.

Explanation: If no decision is required, it should be labeled Inform. The corrected sentence uses neutral, factual language and explicitly says no action is required.