Executive English for Financing: Polite but Firm Term Sheet Negotiation Phrases
Negotiating a term sheet without sounding combative? This lesson gives you an executive‑ready playbook to be polite yet unequivocal—so you can set boundaries, justify them with data, and convert agreement into clean drafting. You’ll get a precise four‑part utterance model, clause‑by‑clause phrasebanks, mini‑dialogues with redlines, and quick drills—plus guidance for UK vs. US tone and lender vs. board audiences. Expect clear explanations, real‑world examples, and targeted exercises that you can lift directly into calls, emails, and markups.
Step 1: Tone Toolkit—Polite Yet Resolute Language Building Blocks
In high‑stakes financing discussions, your credibility depends on sounding courteous while leaving no doubt about your position. This balance is not accidental; it is built from a repeatable language structure and careful register choices that fit the room (lenders vs. boards) and jurisdictional tone (UK vs. US). Think of your negotiation turn as a four-part utterance: a courteous softener, a firm stance, a clear rationale or evidence, and a constructive next step. Each part has a function: the softener preserves relationship; the stance signals boundaries; the evidence makes the position objective rather than personal; and the next step keeps momentum toward agreement.
Start with a concise, respectful opening that acknowledges effort or perspective. Courteous softeners such as “Appreciate the proposal…,” “Thanks for laying that out…,” and “May I suggest we consider…?” lower emotional temperature and invite collaboration. Notice these do not concede substance—they simply frame your contribution as cooperative. Immediately after the softener, introduce your firm stance using signals that convey non-negotiability without aggression: “We will need…,” “That won’t be workable on our side…,” “Our position is that…,” or, in narrower cases, “Non-starter for us.” These stance signals work because they state requirements, not preferences. They help the other side understand where trade-offs must occur.
Follow your stance with evidence that is relevant to term sheets. Evidence frames convert a bare assertion into a reasoned, defendable position. Use data and policy anchors: “Based on our current leverage/coverage…,” “Market on comparable deals is…,” “Our board mandate requires…,” or “Regulatory constraints mean….” Select the frame that fits the clause under discussion. For covenant levels, reference financial metrics and forecasts. For MAC clauses, refer to market standards and legal risk. For fees, highlight total yield and timetable drivers. The point is not to overwhelm with numbers, but to root your ask in objective contexts your counterpart can explain internally.
Finally, close with a constructive path forward. Good closes convert tension into progress. Phrases like “If you can meet X, we can move on Y…,” and “Let’s mark this for counsel to draft accordingly” show that you are solution-oriented and ready to memorialize movement. A forward-looking close also creates a record: if you later send a recap email, the close signals what should appear in the draft, and at what level of certainty.
Adjust this pattern to your audience. When addressing lenders, keep language crisp and measurable. Reference protections (security, intercreditor rights), testing mechanics (quarterly vs. monthly), and definitional guardrails (e.g., excluding non-cash items). Lenders expect you to quantify. When addressing boards, reframe toward risk and option value: dilution, flexibility, downside protections, and probability-weighted outcomes. Boards need clarity on residual risk and how terms affect strategic freedom, not just covenant math.
Be sensitive to UK vs. US tone. In US contexts, directness is read as efficiency: “We need X to proceed” or “That won’t work as drafted” is acceptable. In UK contexts, understatement communicates the same boundary while preserving harmony: “We would need to see X to proceed” or “That would be difficult to accommodate.” This is not a cosmetic difference. It manages face and prevents a productive negotiation from sounding like a confrontation. Use UK-softened phrasing when dealing with British institutions or audiences aligned to that culture; use US-direct when speed and clarity are prioritized and the counterpart expects it.
The more you employ this four-part structure, the more predictable and reassuring you will sound. Colleagues and counterparties will learn that your turns are respectful, decisive, justified, and convergent. Over time, that reputation becomes negotiating capital—it reduces resistance because people trust your asks are principled and your closes are operational.
Step 2: Clause-by-Clause Phrasebanks—Polite but Firm Templates for Key Terms
Term sheets live or die in the details of particular clauses. Rather than improvising, prepare set phrases that map to the most sensitive areas: covenants, leverage and coverage tests, MAC, fees, CPs, intercreditor and security, and equity commitments. Your goal is to articulate a position that is both fair and defensible, tied to your business model and market norms.
For covenants, emphasize operational headroom and realistic reporting cadence. Start by acknowledging lender discipline: “We appreciate the lender’s focus on discipline,” which signals alignment on principle. Then state your minimum viable headroom using concrete metrics: “we’ll need headroom at [leverage/interest coverage] of [X], with equity cure permitted up to [Y] quarters.” Headroom is not indulgence; it protects the business from normal volatility and ensures the test measures solvency rather than seasonality. On reporting frequency, draw a boundary anchored in burden and usefulness: “Quarterly reporting is fine; monthly would be burdensome—could we align to quarter-end plus 30 days?” In a UK register, soften further: “Monthly reporting would be challenging on our side; could we meet you at quarterly plus 30?” Note that you are not rejecting transparency; you are matching cadence to process capacity and the value of information.
For leverage and coverage metrics, tie numbers to pro forma EBITDA, seasonality, and forecasted trajectory. A phrase like “Given pro forma EBITDA and seasonality, a max leverage of [X]x at close, stepping down to [X-0.5]x by Q4, is the minimum viable,” communicates a slope (deleveraging) and a floor (minimum viable). For interest coverage, define what counts: “Interest coverage at [Y]x is workable if we exclude non-cash items; otherwise the tests will misread underlying performance.” Definitional clarity avoids retroactive disputes when accounting treatments change. Always pair a threshold with a definitional guardrail; numbers without definitions invite friction.
For the MAC clause, limit triggers to company-specific events and carve out macro shocks. Recognize lender concerns: “We recognize the need for a MAC,” then narrow scope: “we’ll need it limited to company-specific effects, excluding general market or sector-wide events.” In the US, you can be blunter: “We can’t accept a MAC tied to macro conditions. Company-specific only, with objective thresholds.” In the UK, soften: “We’d be grateful to limit the MAC to company-specific matters, carving out broader market conditions.” The aim is to prevent financing from failing due to factors neither party can control (e.g., industry-wide downturns) while preserving recourse for true adverse changes within the borrower’s business.
On fees—ticking fee and OID—control total yield and timing fairness. For ticking fees, align start date with control of the timetable: “We can accommodate a ticking fee from day 30 post-signing at [bps], but not from signing; the timetable is lender-driven.” This reframes the fee as compensation for lender capital lock-up only after a reasonable grace period. For OID, tie acceptance to offsetting protections: “An OID of [X%] is acceptable if call protection is reduced accordingly; otherwise, total yield is off-market.” This demonstrates sophistication: you are not bargaining a single number, but balancing the economics across instruments to reach market yield.
For conditions precedent (CPs), distinguish essential pre-close deliverables from those better handled post-closing. Confirm willingness on basics: “Happy to provide KYC and corporate approvals,” then redirect burdensome items: “the full customer consent set is not feasible pre-close. Could we move those to post-closing covenants within 30 days?” The language concedes nothing on legitimacy; it addresses feasibility and timing. Lenders want certainty; you offer it through a time-bound post-closing mechanism instead of a pre-close bottleneck.
For intercreditor and security packages, protect operational assets and future financing capacity. Express alignment where possible: “We’re aligned on first-lien on working capital assets,” then ringfence strategic property: “however, IP should remain unencumbered or subject to negative pledge only.” This protects your innovation engine and prevents undue friction in future licensing or JV arrangements. On intercreditor terms, specify the standstill and releases that preserve maneuverability: “On intercreditor, we need a 90–120 day standstill and customary release mechanics—anything broader would constrain operations.” Define “customary” by reference to market precedents your counsel can point to.
For equity commitments, pair certainty with reciprocity. State your ceiling clearly: “The equity commitment letter will be hard-capped at [amount] with no financing out; in return we need certainty on debt availability subject only to agreed CPs.” The symmetry is the point: if you commit unconditionally up to a cap, the debt side must also be conditioned only by known, agreed CPs—not vague or expandable conditions. This ensures closing certainty for both sides.
Develop quick pivots that convert a “no” into a structured “yes-if.” Replace “That’s not feasible for us” with “That won’t work as drafted; if we cap it at [X] and add a cure right, we can proceed.” Replace “We disagree” with “Understood; from our side, a path forward would be [specific adjustment].” These pivots de-escalate conflict and keep the conversation solution-focused. Over time, they also train the other side to present proposals already framed in a yes‑if structure.
Step 3: Scenario Drills—Mini Dialogues and Redline Language
When terms are close, words alone are not enough; you need language that can drop directly into drafts. Practice moving from spoken positions to precise redline formulations. Anchor your verbal asks in measurable thresholds and clean drafting. For leverage, for example, respond to an aggressive step-down by affirming the objective (deleveraging) and setting a workable path with time frames and cure mechanics. The drafting should specify the ratio, periods, and any cure rights with frequencies (e.g., once per four consecutive quarters) so that both parties can operationalize compliance.
For the MAC clause, your redline should exclude general economic, financial, political, or industry conditions, and ideally reference that the company-specific effects must be objectively determinable, not merely subjective. This is where your evidence framing (“market on comparable deals is…”) strengthens your drafting asks; counsel can align your language with market-standard definitions, reducing time in later markups.
For fees like ticking fees, tie accrual to a clear date relative to signing, not ambiguous milestones like “on or about closing,” which can be contested. A simple, dated trigger—“commencing on the 30th day following the Signing Date”—is operationally clean. This avoids later disputes about when capital was effectively tied up and what compensation is due.
The discipline here is consistency. Your spoken position should anticipate the drafting that will appear. If you say “quarterly plus 30,” ensure the redline shows “as soon as practicable and in any event within 30 days following the end of each fiscal quarter.” If you say “one equity cure per rolling four quarters,” the draft must use that exact frequency. Consistent language prevents re-litigation of the same point in document form.
Step 4: Documentation and Audience Adaptation—From Room to Paper
A successful negotiation ends not in a handshake but in aligned documents. Immediately after material discussions, capture outcomes in a recap email written in clear, defensible English. Use a neutral subject line such as “Term Sheet—Key Points Agreed in Principle.” In the body, thank participants for the constructive session and list each point in numbered form with specific values, time frames, and carve-outs. Avoid interpretive adjectives such as “generous” or “tight.” Stick to verifiable terms: ratios, dates, carve-outs, mechanics. Close with a request for confirmation so counsel can reflect the points in the next draft. This step creates a contemporaneous record that helps resolve later misunderstandings and speeds drafting.
When briefing your board, reframe the same content in risk language and strategic impact, not legal micro-detail. Summarize how the package preserves operational flexibility (e.g., higher initial leverage with a cure right), contains fee leakage (e.g., later ticking fee start), and manages downside risk (e.g., MAC limited to company-specific triggers). Identify residual risks succinctly. Boards want to know what latitude management has and what failure modes remain—not the exact comma placement in a definition.
Adapt your register for US vs. UK stakeholders. In US-facing documents and calls, direct statements like “We will need…” or “That won’t work…” are efficient and expected. In UK contexts, choose formulations like “We would need to see…” and “That would be difficult to accommodate…” to signal firmness through understatement. This switch enhances receptivity without changing substance. Institutional culture also matters: some global lenders with UK roots may still prefer the understated style even in US deals.
Finally, cross-check for consistency across all channels: what you said in the room, what appears in your recap, and what counsel marks in redlines should match. Inconsistency costs credibility and time. Before hitting send, compare phrasing and numbers across your notes, the recap email, and counsel’s draft. If there is a strategic reason to evolve a position, be explicit about the change and the rationale, and propose the constructive next step to integrate it. The discipline of consistent articulation will make your term sheet negotiation faster, cleaner, and more likely to close.
Bringing it all together, “Executive English for Financing: Polite but Firm Term Sheet Negotiation Phrases” equips you with a repeatable utterance model, clause-specific templates, and documentation strategies that translate directly into outcomes. Use courteous softeners to maintain rapport, firm stances to protect core requirements, evidence frames to ground your asks in data and policy, and constructive closes to convert momentum into draftable terms. Tailor tone for lenders versus boards and adjust UK/US register to fit cultural expectations. Memorialize agreements promptly and precisely. With this toolkit, you can navigate complex term sheet negotiations in language that is respectful, assertive, and reliably effective.
- Use a four-part utterance in negotiations: courteous softener → firm stance → objective evidence → constructive next step.
- Anchor positions in clause-specific, measurable terms (e.g., leverage/coverage with definitions, MAC limited to company-specific events, fees tied to clear dates, CPs split pre- vs post-close).
- Adapt register to audience and culture: quantify and protect mechanics with lenders; frame risk/option value for boards; use US-direct or UK-understated phrasing as context requires.
- Ensure consistency from room to redlines to recap emails—capture ratios, dates, carve-outs, and mechanics precisely to avoid re-litigation and speed closing.
Example Sentences
- Appreciate the proposal; we will need the maximum leverage at 3.5x at close, stepping down to 3.0x by Q4, based on pro forma EBITDA and seasonality; if you can meet that, we can lock the ratio schedule today.
- Thanks for laying that out—monthly reporting would be challenging on our side; market practice is quarterly plus 30 days; if we align to that cadence, we’re ready to proceed with drafting.
- May I suggest we consider limiting the MAC to company‑specific effects; a macro‑linked trigger won’t be workable given regulatory guidance and comparables; if we agree that scope, counsel can insert objective thresholds.
- We appreciate the lender’s discipline; our position is that interest coverage at 2.0x is workable if non‑cash items are excluded, per our board mandate; if that definition is acceptable, we can green‑light the covenant package.
- Thank you for the revised economics; an OID of 2% is acceptable if call protection is reduced accordingly, as total yield would otherwise be off‑market; confirm this trade‑off and we’ll mark it as agreed in principle.
Example Dialogue
Alex: Thanks for circulating the latest term sheet—helpful to see it all in one place. We will need the ticking fee to commence on day 30 post‑signing; starting at signing won’t be workable as the timetable is lender‑driven. If you can move that start date, we can finalize economics today.
Ben: Understood. Our view was that early accrual compensates capital lock‑up, but I see your point. If we shift to day 30, can you hold the OID at 1.75%?
Alex: That’s reasonable if call protection steps down faster—otherwise total yield runs hot versus market. Based on comps, a 50% reduction in year‑one call would balance it. If that works, let’s have counsel draft accordingly.
Ben: Fair. We can live with a faster step‑down on call if OID stays at 1.75%. I’ll confirm internally and revert by close of business so we can mark economics settled.
Exercises
Multiple Choice
1. Which four-part structure best organizes a firm but courteous negotiation turn in a financing discussion?
- A friendly anecdote, a vague request, emotional appeal, a final demand
- A courteous softener, a firm stance, objective evidence, a constructive next step
- An immediate ultimatum, legal citation, personal criticism, silence
- Technical detail, unrelated praise, hypothetical risk, conditional threat
Show Answer & Explanation
Correct Answer: A courteous softener, a firm stance, objective evidence, a constructive next step
Explanation: The lesson prescribes a repeatable four-part utterance: start with a softener to preserve relationship, state a firm stance to signal boundaries, supply evidence to make the position objective, and close with a constructive next step to keep momentum.
2. Which phrasing is most appropriate for a UK audience when communicating a boundary about reporting frequency?
- We will not accept monthly reporting; quarterly only.
- That won’t work as drafted; monthly reporting is rejected.
- Monthly reporting would be challenging on our side; could we meet you at quarterly plus 30?
- You must change to quarterly; monthly is impossible.
Show Answer & Explanation
Correct Answer: Monthly reporting would be challenging on our side; could we meet you at quarterly plus 30?
Explanation: For UK contexts the lesson recommends understatement to convey firmness while preserving harmony. This option uses a softener plus a proposal ('could we meet you at...'), matching the UK register guidance.
Fill in the Blanks
Appreciate the proposal; ___ we will need maximum leverage at 3.5x at close, stepping down to 3.0x by Q4, based on pro forma EBITDA and seasonality.
Show Answer & Explanation
Correct Answer: our position is that
Explanation: After a courteous softener, the structure calls for a firm stance. 'Our position is that' signals a clear, non-negotiable requirement in a professional, firm way.
We can accommodate a ticking fee from day 30 post-signing at [bps]; if you can meet that start date, ___ to draft the adjusted economics.
Show Answer & Explanation
Correct Answer: we can instruct counsel
Explanation: The final part of the utterance is a constructive next step. 'We can instruct counsel' or similar conveys readiness to convert agreement into actionable drafting, consistent with the toolkit's close suggestions.
Error Correction
Incorrect: Thanks for the note — we will consider that, but the MAC should include general market downturns to be safe.
Show Correction & Explanation
Correct Sentence: Thanks for the note — we will consider that, but the MAC should exclude general market downturns and be limited to company-specific effects.
Explanation: The lesson advises narrowing MAC clauses to company-specific triggers and carving out macro/market conditions. Including general market downturns expands lender exit rights beyond what is negotiable and risks a financing failing due to broad conditions.
Incorrect: We appreciate the lender’s discipline; monthly reporting is fine—quarterly would be burdensome.
Show Correction & Explanation
Correct Sentence: We appreciate the lender’s discipline; quarterly reporting is fine; monthly would be burdensome—could we align to quarter-end plus 30 days?
Explanation: This corrects both content and tone: the original contradicts typical borrower limits (monthly is usually more burdensome). The corrected sentence aligns with the lesson's advice to acknowledge lender concerns, state a firm boundary, and propose a constructive cadence ('quarter-end plus 30').